What made you decide to write this book?
I wrote this book because I discovered that people just like me are seeking
deeper meaning in their lives and an understanding of their purpose for being
on the planet. People desperately want to know that who they are and what
they do matters. The Art of Being, 101 Ways To Practice Purpose In Your
Life, offers those with open minds and willing hearts the opportunity to,
not only discover who they are and what their purpose for "being" is, but
also the tools to activate their purpose everyday of their lives. What
teachers and spiritual leaders have had the greatest impact on you? Dr.
Ernest Holmes, Jesus, Buddha, Rumi, Vivekananda, Lao-tzu, Thich Nhat Hanh,
Gary Zukav, Don Miguel Ruiz, Wayne Muller, Jean Huston, Deepak Chopra
and many others.
Were you raised in a particular faith?
My two sisters and my brother and I were raised as Methodist. At the age of
about 13 my parents became disenchanted with some of the dogma and politics
of structured church and we began having our own "family services" in our
living room at home. That break from the traditional church became the entry
point into metaphysics and the study of western and eastern mysticism for
my parents, which has at some level clearly trickled down to me.
Do you feel you were always spiritually inclined, even as a child?
From the day I was born I seemed to be drawn to the Arts because it made me
feel closer to "some creative process" happening in me which I knew was much
larger than I, and yet, I also knew I was in It even as It was in me, and
that it created through me. Today I would refer to this as the Omnipresence,
Omniscience and Omnipotence of God operating at the level of the individual.
When we were born we were 100% spirit, and we still are - we can't get any
more spiritual than we already are. True spiritually is simply sensing our
oneness with the Divine in every holy instant and practicing being present
in It. I believe that all children are born with this awareness but soon
begin to forget it the moment the world starts to cover the child with
various labels that identify him or her with the material world.
How and when did you come to discover New Thought as the foundation
for your current system of belief?
In 1977 I was working as a professional musician. I was in a marriage
that should never have been and it seemed that the world I had created
for myself was not only non-rewarding but it was metaphorically "on fire".
To say I was unhappy would be a gross understatement. I was in immense
emotional pain that was being driven by a lot of fear, some real but most
imagined. I had tired going the traditional religion route, but I just
couldn't get behind the whole "damnation, shame, guilt, hell and devil",
being motivated by fear thing. Then, one evening while watching TV a man
named Dr. Frank Richelieu appeared and with the first words out of his
mouth, I was transformed. He said, "Friends, there is no devil,
there is no hell...we create our own devil and personal hell in our
own minds by our misguided thinking and beliefs." The rest is history.
I called his church, The Redondo Beach Center for Spiritual Living and
obtained information regarding the life altering classes and philosophy
of Science of Mind. That was 32 years ago and I have never looked back.
Do you feel that a person can have a fulfilling spiritual life
without participating in organized religion?
I absolutely do believe a person can have a fulfilling spiritual life
without participating in an organized religion, however there is great
value in belonging to a spiritual community. There is a big difference
between religion and spirituality. Religions are systematic and are, by
their very nature, structured to keep people involved within a specific
religion and doctrine to keep it alive. Too often religions become more
about dogma and doctrine rather than practicing the awareness of the
presence a universally available God. Religions tend to want to place
themselves between God and the people, sort of like a middleman through
whom the people must go before they can have a personal relationship
with God. On the other hand, spirituality needs no building, no structure,
no rules and no leaders. Spirituality is a mindfulness practice that
allows us to remember that whoever we are, wherever we are or whatever
we are doing, God's Presence is fully there. That is the richness of
"Being" on purpose. Every holy instant offers us another opportunity
to have a spiritual experience. It's a choice we make.
Do you feel that in recent times, people have misused the Law of
Attraction purely for material gain?
I am not sure one can misuse the Law of Attraction any more than one can
misuse the law of gravity. The Law of Attraction has really become another
a "buzz word" for the one and only Law there is, which is the universal Law
of Cause and Effect. The Law of Cause and Effect can be used in many
different ways, however it can never be manipulated. Because we have been
imbued with freedom to choose our own thoughts we shall always attract
to us that experience which most accurately reflects our thoughts and
deepest beliefs about life and ourselves, irrespective of whether we are
conscious of them or not. Therefore, if out of our own ignorance of the
Law we draw to us an experience of lack or limitation, it is not because
we have intentionally misused the Law, it is because we have failed to
use it correctly because we didn't understand how it works. Regarding
using the Law of Attraction purely for material gain: As an entry level
teaching device, some teachers have begun calling the Law of Cause and
Effect the Law of Attraction because it implies you can use it to
magically draw "stuff" to you. That does seem to be what captures the
imagination of many people, most of whom are in search of the magic
bullet to success and happiness. With the recent overwhelming popularity
of the movie and book, The Secret, the Law of Attraction has garnered a
lot of attention. Can the Law of Attraction be used for material gain?
Certainly, if the one using the Law fully believes he or she is worthy
of having what they are trying to manifest. Is the use of the Law of
Attraction to get "stuff" a misuse of the Law? No, however it may be
misguided. At the end of the day we'll discover that the greatest use
of the Law of Attraction comes into play when we realize that we can
draw to us whatever is required to create a life truly worth living - a
life centered in an awareness of God's presence. Those qualities most
often show up as loving kindness, generosity, sacred service to others
and reverence for life. Oddly enough, this is when the Law of Attraction
becomes our servant, not our master.
What kind(s) of people do you think will benefit most from your
book?
People who are seeking to deepen their sense of the sacred in everyday life.
People who are seeking direction, meaning and purpose in their lives.
People seeking inner peace.
People who want to know how to live more fully from their authentic self.
People who want to make a difference in the world.
People who want to see peace on the planet as a reality.
People who wish to deepen their relationship with their significant other.
People who desire to bring peace and equanimity into their home.
People who desire true abundance in the broadest sense of the word.
People who are seeking to establish meaningful and authentic relationships.
People who want to make their work, their passion.
People who seek physical healing, balance and wholeness.
People who are seeking a sense of common ground, unity and oneness with
others through spiritual connection.